Volume 4, Issue 5 | May 2, 2008
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TABLE OF CONTENTS


Welcome to your May SHIFT-IT e-Zine.

  1. A Note From Christina
  2. Events Calendar
  3. June's SHIFT-IT Intensive
  4. Feature Article: 6 Tips to Correct a Negative Spiral
  5. Recent Blog Entries
  6. More Links & Resources

A NOTE FROM CHRISTINA


Dear %$firstname$%,

I had a fantastic time on my trip to California. 

I attended the Elias event (another channel who shares ‘create your own reality’ information), and had an interesting private session … see blog for more details. 

Also had a chance to see friends and colleagues in L.A. … including Lorrie Morgan-Ferrero of Red Hot Copy, who I adore.  Over the last few years we’ve become close, both utilizing the other’s services.  She has taught me so much about the power of copywriting and how to ‘find my voice’.  Look out for her ‘She Factor’ event in the fall  … very powerful stuff. 

The final leg of my trip was spent over in sunny Palm Desert.  Each year I invest extensively in my own learning and development.  This year I’m doing Melanie Benson Strick’s Platinum Mastermind program … along with 6 other entrepreneurs.

We had our first in-person retreat (one of three) – wonderful to be among like-minded and hearted peers discussing solutions for our growing businesses.  What a blast!  Can’t wait for the next one!

While coaching clients from the road these weeks, I’ve noticed a bit of a trend going on in our coaching calls.  Many clients are in the process of course correcting and pulling out of a negative loop.  I certainly have empathy for that kind of experience.  It wasn’t that long ago that I had to pull myself up by my own mental bootstraps. 

Soooo, in honor of those who are SHIFTing to a new and better reality, I’ve decided to dust off an article from a few years back … six tips on how to correct a negative spiral.  An oldie, but as it is one of my highest ranked articles to date, hopefully a goodie.

Enjoy! See you next month,

Christina Merkley,
The SHIFT-IT Coach

 

EVENTS CALENDAR


May 11:(2-5pm). NEXT LOA GATHERING:  This month’s fr*ee Law of Attraction Gathering in my Victoria, BC studio.  Watch and discuss LOA videos with like-minded folks.  Suitable for both beginners and more advanced. This month: Abraham-Hicks. RSVP Now. 

May 21-22: MEETING GRAPHICS 101 WORKSHOP (level 1): Introductory graphic recording and graphic facilitation skills for facilitators, consultants, trainers, coaches, managers and other process leaders and assistants. Foundational basics for the beginner. No art skills necessary. More Info   Sold Out! (5 spots left for November 5-6 offering). 

May 23-24: THE GRAPHIC BOOTCAMP (level 2): More advanced instruction and experiential practice. Offered right after MG 101 for those traveling from afar. Tons of at-the-wall drills. Demos. Template construction. Recording and facilitation practice. Advance icon library. Plus business and sales instruction- how to effectively market the benefits of working visually to create an internal or external practice. More Info Sold Out! (6 spots left for November 7-8 offering).

June 19-21: SHIFT-IT INTENSIVE    Spring is in the air – and so is my annual in-person SHIFT-IT Intensive in beautiful Victoria, B.C.  This is the only face-to-face group coaching I offer each year.  Get SHIFTed! Make peace with your past, clarify your future, and align your actions.  Give yourself the gift of a happier, more integrated you! More Info.  7 spots left.

Ongoing: Private Mentoring and In-house Trainings: One-to-one graphic recording and graphic facilitation training for yourself or for your company/group. Come to me or I come to you. More Info.

 

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ARTICLE: 6 WAYS TO CORRECT A NEGATIVE SPIRAL


We’ve all have them.  Sometimes they last a short period.  Sometimes they last weeks, months, years, decades - yikes, perhaps even a lifetime.  I’m talking about downward spirals.  Where negatives things pile one on top of another, until it seems that is the only reality that exists. 

In the last few weeks I’ve fielded several calls from colleagues and friends who are in a down place.  They’ve hit a bump, a logjam --- what seems and feels like a downright calamity.  They turn to me for some hope and inspiration, as they know I’ve weathered tough times and have come out the other side.  So, having been through this process, I can understand it a bit and hopefully guide others about what to do and what NOT to do.  So here is what I am sharing them with.

  1. Recognize What You Are Doing

If you’ve got a negative spiral occurring, the first thing you need to do is recognize that you’ve got one and take responsibility.  Chances are this has been building up for a while.  Negative spirals don’t just come out of the blue. They are a slow build up of energy that eventually picks up speed – attracting negative situations and events like a magnet.  Like attracts like.  Somewhere back in the chain of events you got something you didn’t like and you really focused on it – and unfortunately, you began an attraction parade from there.  Its very easy to do, and unfortunately again, our society kind of supports this way of thinking and being.

  1. List the Benefits of the Trauma

When a negative event happens we always have the choice of how we are going to interpret and apply meaning to it.  We can choose to think of it in a negative way and as a result get an associated lousy feeling or we can choose to think of it in a more positive way and as a result get an associated better feeling .  I’m not talking about being a Pollyanna or just slapping a happy face sticker on things (to quote Abraham, my favorite Law of Attraction source).  I’m talking about at least finding a slightly better feeling way to think or talk about things.  Your power lies in figuring out how to think more proactively or productively about things – if needed, put a bigger picture on them. 

Yes, sometimes the ‘silver lining’ approach can only be seen in hindsight.  I know when I was back in San Francisco and 911 hit (and 80% of my worked dried up), my Green Card process was denied (try getting a lawyer to explain graphic facilitation to an INS official!), and my live-in relationship dissolved, all in a very short period of time, it took me a while (ok, up until about last week – hee hee, just kiddin’) to see the good in all of that.  The benefit of that very trying time in my life is that it got me to stand on my own two feet in a much larger way.  It got me into my ‘real’ work and made me play bigger.  It got me to become my Next Self, which in the bigger picture was a very good thing!

So, if you’ve got a challenging event, or several of them (like in my previous situation) do your very best to focus on the embedded benefits.  How might this situation actually be serving you?  How could this be a ‘good’ thing at some level?  What role can you appreciate that it might be playing in your life?  List all of these things onto paper.  It is really important to extract them out.

  1. Remember It’s a Vibrational Game

Why is it important to do the work of pulling out the benefits?  Because it’s a vibrational universe that’s why – like attracts like.  Everything has a certain vibration or field to it.  A more downer thought creates a more downer feeling in you. And that downer feeling is like a radio signal that goes out and attracts more downer things to you.  That is why a downward spiral picks up such speed.  A downer thought, creates a downer feeling.  A downer feeling attracts a matching event.  Which elicits another downer feeling, perhaps just a touch more intense.  Which attracts another event, of a matching downer intensity. And so it goes.  Until you’ve got a really bummer reality built (that’s a technical term –wink).

  1. The Good News

The good news is – the same phenomenon also occurs for the upward spiral.  You can course correct a negative spiral by interrupting the pattern.  Stop the insanity.  Turn the train around by choosing to find a slightly better thought – that will create a slightly better feeling.  Which will attract a slightly better event.  Which will create a slightly better thought.  Which will create a slightly better feeling.  And so IT goes.  Except this time you are headed in the direction you really want to be – upwards and onwards! 

  1. Be Optimistic, Have Faith, Believe In ‘Crazy’ Possibilities

Another thing – it is good to set aside logic for a bit and allow for the possibility for ‘crazy’ things to happen.  There are ways for you to come out of whatever situation you have created for yourself.  It is possible for good and unexpected things to occur.  I’m not suggesting that you sit around and wait for something magical to happen – no.  What I am saying is to open up your thinking a tad, to allow room for something you haven’t thought of to come through.  The ‘universe’ (or whatever you want to call it) has a very wide range of possibilities to draw from.  Imagine and really feel that your situation is solved, and then be open to the unique forms that may show up as an answer.

  1. Take Inspired, Aligned Action

You do have an active role to take in turning your downward spiral around.  First, you need to do the belief and attitude and focus work we have been talking about – you need to shift your emphasis to what you really want (instead of complaining, worrying and fretting about what you don’t – and in doing so attracting all of that towards you at warp speed).  And, you need to find the positive aspects in what is happening to you. 

The other thing you need to do is to identify and just take your next step.  Get quiet, get settled, tune into your higher self or inner coach or inner strategic planner (whatever you want to call it!) and listen for what your next step is.  If you are honest with yourself and settle down enough to listen, you will know what your next step is.  Then – do it!

I didn’t shift out of my situation by thoughts and attitude alone – it took lots of aligned actions as well (all successful people I know take action).  You must move towards the things that you really want.  You must trust yourself and foloow the inklings, whispers, intuitions and guidance that you get.  As you implement one idea, the next one will emerge.  They emerge, like a trail of breadcrumbs for you to follow --- leading you out of your forest of worry and bad feelings, into the wide open of possibilities, hope and well being.

© 2008 Christina L. Merkley

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Christina Merkley is The SHIFT-IT Coach. Creator of the SHIFT-IT Graphic Coaching Process®, she guides individuals, partners and groups in defining and getting what they really, really want.

A teacher of Law of Attraction, she is also an expert in visual meeting techniques, strategic planning and visioning: having worked for such notable companies as BBC, Readers Digest Funds, eBay and Stanford University. After a move from San Francisco, she now lives in charming Victoria, British Columbia, Canada - where she maintains a vibrant coaching, facilitation and training practice

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